Five Kinds Of Friends You Must Avoid

 

FIVE (5) KINDS OF FIRENDS YOU MUST AVOID.

By Apostle Daniel Akpai

As the world begins to get tough one has to be careful of the kind of FRIENDS he or she keeps..

 In this article I will point out the kinds of friends you must avoid... 

1. FIRENDS that always like to take from you without contributing to your life.

2. FIRENDS that speak evil of others to you. Your topic will be next when they are done with you

3. FRIENDS that don't believe in your vision. They will talk you out of your vision.

4. FRIENDS that are worldly and carnal. This kinds of friends will lead you into their sinful kind of life.

5. FRIENDS that only come around when things are well and rosy. Avoid them..

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Dear Teenager, Please Listen To What I Have To Say

 

DEAR TEENAGER, PLEASE LISTEN TO WHAT I HAVE TO SAY.

I am Daniel Akpai you brother in Christ, I got born again in 2003 but before then as I TEENAGER I lived my life chasing the world and sexual IMMORALITY.. Yes! I was a tout, we fought from street to street until God arrested me in 2003...

Some months ago I visited my home town, I was privileged to see some of my old teenage friends who we used to be stubborn and commit sins together.. To my greatest surprise some are destroyed by hard drugs,some are still touts, I have preached to them in many occasions but all my messages fell on deaf ears...

Many of them have died because of social vices.. some are with deadly disease..  I saw two of them mad on the street due to hard drugs.. sincerely I couldn't get close... Why not pray for them? Sir I was not led 

DEAR TEENAGER, a time will come you will regret ever living the kind of life you are living today, you will regret loosing your virginity to a guy because of peer pressure..

You will regret joining a group that adds no value to your life..

You will regret commiting many abortions before marriage..

You will regret destroying your kidney and liver with the smoke of cigarettes.

You will regret doing so many things as a teenager...

Here is the truth of the matter, it is not every teenager that escape the consequences of their teenage ACTIONS..

I know the only thing you think about now as a teenage girl is that boy friend, you even insults your parents and anyone that wants you to get your sanity back.. All these people telling you to stop are helping you.. listen to them...

This S*X you are running after.. the same girl you are running after will deny you when he go es you pregnancy..

Dear young teenage brother, don't join hard gang.. they don't last.. Don't give your parents sorrow..

We have son making their parents proud..

Stop clubbing..

Stop bringing ridicules to your family...

At this point all you need to do is sit and discover your purpose.. Chasing ladies can be fun but I bet you that will bring your early death.. is either you die by HIV or someone kills you because you collected his girl friend...

Before you have many regrets tomorrow think about this and stop anything that doesn't glorify God..

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If Your Marriage Must Work

IF YOUR MARRIAGE MUST WORK

By Apostle Daniel Akpai.

Don't skip this READ it till the end!

Before we got married I told my wife I came from a broken home and how my father and mum got divorce in 1993. I told her what we went through as children especially when we were not allowed to see our mum and daddy was not always around to take care of us since he was a public transport driver.. from that experience I told my wife from day one that we are not getting divorced and that we must make it work....

What most parents don't know is that many children go through emotional trauma when they see their parents in crisis or divorce yet they lack avenue to express themselves as children.. I have been there I know what am saying...

The truth is that there is absolutely nothing you can do to stop divorce totally because many were deceived into marriage, many have bad luck in marriage, many wives and husbands are stubborn and arrogant with no iota of reachable spirit, some women when their husbands say 1 they will say 100 and some men when their wives says 1 she become a punching bag. Now tell me how such marriages will last?

Some years ago I have blamed people for going in their separate ways not until I began to listen to some of them to know what really happened..

One day I asked myself if I could bear such in a marriage I told myself NEVER!!! 

Things are really happening in marriages fa! If you are not there you won't understand their pains...

Few days ago a man met me and told me he is leaving his wife.. I asked why?

He told me all he is going through in the hands of the wife, I have asked the wife to hear her side of the story before as well.. Guess what! What the wife was vomiting in my presence got me scared.. 

I told myself if she could talk this way in my presence then this man is trying.. Today nobody is blaming village people over the divorce that is about to hit them oh! Most problems in marriage are mouth problems...

MY ADVICE TO COUPLES:

1. Learn to control your anger when angry

2. Learn to overlook some things in marriage

3. Learn to forgive each other

4. Learn to respect and adore each other

5. Both of you should make it a decision that your marriage will work

6. Both of you should make it work. Don't leave it on one person. It won't work that way

7. I beg you in God's name; Anything your partner says he or she doesn't like pls stop it forever.

8. Learn to understand each other 

9. Never compare your spouse to your EX or anyone.

10. Live according to your means.

11. Be faithful and loyal to each other. Avoid cheating it pains.

12. Be best of friends..

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Six Mistakes You Must Never Make In Life.

 

SIX (6) MISTAKES YOU MUST NEVER MAKE IN LIFE.

By Apostle Daniel Akpai.

Some people say "experience is the best teacher but I realized that it is not every experience people survive to learn from. That is why this article will help to guide you on common mistakes you must avoid.

1. You must do all you can never to marry wrongly. If you get into bad marriage it is likely to affect your focus and assignment here on earth.

2. Dont run from God at your youthful age. Do all you can to find and love God as early as possible because knowing God as early as possible helps you avoid some battles that are likely to come with you live your life anyhow. In addition, when you know God you can never end in regrets.

3. Don't play with your life when you're young.

Discover purpose early and chase it. Fellows who play with their lives when they are young tend to be miserable at old age. Some even get rejected in the community when they need help.

4. Weakness and character problems. No matter how talented you are if you have weakness and character problems you won't go far in life. Never say "people will accept me for who I am" that statement is the reason many don't work on themselves. Do all you can to work on yourself if you must get to the top

5. Poor financial management. If you can't work and save for the future the future won't be fair to you. A wise man said "The future belongs only to those who plan it". 

6. Peer pressure. Do all you can never to bow to the pressure gotten from friends who want you to do things that are morally bad. Some of them actually want to break from it but they can't so they see you as a SAINT and would want all of you to fall and go down together. Be wise, remember those who smoke, drink alcohol, womanize or club start from peer pressure. Be wise and check your association.

I just hope you learnt from this.. if you take this post to your TIMELINE it might help someone too.

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How To Make Your Marriage Heaven On Earth

 

HOW TO MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE HEAVEN ON EARTH..

By Apostle Daniel Akpai.

Lately many are scared going into marriage because of the high rate of divorce in many marriages regardless of their religion.

I have heard some singles saying, "I don't want to marry because of the problems". In this article I want to prove one point to you. I want to write categorically clear that it is not all marriages that are going through hell... The thing is, when you take your cloth to tailor who decides the style to be sewn? When you want to build a house and you speak to an architect who decides the pattern of the house?

SAME THING HAPPENS TO MARRIAGE! You and your spouse need to decide the pattern and style of marriage you want your children to grow up to see,you decide the kind of marriage you want the world to see through both of you.

You don't embark on a journey because you have transport fair, you don't go into marriage because you have the money or you're of age. Marriage should be gotten into with serious preparedness to making it work....

IF YOUR MARRIAGE MUST BE HEAVEN ON EARTH:

1. Learn to ignore little issues and talk them out with maturity

2. If you have forgiven him or her never refer to the case again forever. Do learn to forgive sincerely.

3. Become friends.. play around, dance around, joke with yourselves. Marriage is not military Barack biko

4. CONFIDE in each others. Plan things together and always do all you can to get each other's back.

5. Don't joke with your sex life. Discuss it once in a while and always make improvements when necessary. Just keep firing with many adventures

6. Always pray together. Ask God to keep your home.. and learn to listen to Holy Spirit when you're angry He will tell you how to calm the situation.

7. Support each other's spiritually, financially, materially and intellectually.

8. Never CHEAT on your wife or husband. Trust is like breath, people don't notice it when it's around but when it is gone everyone notices it. Guard your trust with him or her with all your life because when broken most times it is hard to get.

9. Live according to your means. Don't force your spouse to do something that is more than him or her. Avoid pressure and celebrate each other. Never compare your spouse to anyone..

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If You Don't Want To Die Broke

 

IF YOU DON'T WANT TO DIE BROKE

by Apostle Daniel Akpai.

Today many go into depression because of the happenings around the world but then many are rising as Giants despite the happenings around the world..

In this piece I will drop some key points that will help you from dying broke...

WHAT ARE THE STRATEGIES?

1. Get yourself a good and positive clique (friends). If your friends can't influence you positivity then change them. Life is just one don't waste it on wrong association. Your association determines your destination.

2. Stop the blame game. If people refuse to help or support your financially don't get mad at them get mad at your situation and look for strategies that will sincerely get you out.

3. Don't depend on anyone for your welfare. People don't care if I must say, everyone has his own issues and bills to pay, apart from your parents nobody is financially responsible to you. Every man to his tent, when this sinks into you then you will never get angry at people when they fail to help.

4. Do something!!! If there is no job start something.. if there is no big money then start something that requires small capital. You must not start like Dangote. Just do something! Doing something also goes a long way with pastors too. Dear pastor, if you don't have something doing you will continue to be bitter towards your members for not giving you money. 

God didn't call you to be collecting money from them He called you to impact them, giving you should be a CHOICE not by FORCE. A pastor that has something doing will support his MINISTRY with his self made money than any member does. Again, there is nothing wrong when they willingly give you but don't make it a right it's a privilege.

5. Set financial target for yourself every year and draft strategies needed in achieving them.

6. If you don't have any hard work (skill acquisition) please learn one. A quick reminder, no billionaire got to that level of wealth with his or her academic grade, they all went there through enterpreneurship. Even as a lady now if you don't have something doing some guys won't see you attractive because some are running from liability too..

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