IF YOUR MARRIAGE MUST WORK
By Apostle Daniel Akpai.
Don't skip this READ it till the end!
Before we got married I told my wife I came from a broken home and how my father and mum got divorce in 1993. I told her what we went through as children especially when we were not allowed to see our mum and daddy was not always around to take care of us since he was a public transport driver.. from that experience I told my wife from day one that we are not getting divorced and that we must make it work....
What most parents don't know is that many children go through emotional trauma when they see their parents in crisis or divorce yet they lack avenue to express themselves as children.. I have been there I know what am saying...
The truth is that there is absolutely nothing you can do to stop divorce totally because many were deceived into marriage, many have bad luck in marriage, many wives and husbands are stubborn and arrogant with no iota of reachable spirit, some women when their husbands say 1 they will say 100 and some men when their wives says 1 she become a punching bag. Now tell me how such marriages will last?
Some years ago I have blamed people for going in their separate ways not until I began to listen to some of them to know what really happened..
One day I asked myself if I could bear such in a marriage I told myself NEVER!!!
Things are really happening in marriages fa! If you are not there you won't understand their pains...
Few days ago a man met me and told me he is leaving his wife.. I asked why?
He told me all he is going through in the hands of the wife, I have asked the wife to hear her side of the story before as well.. Guess what! What the wife was vomiting in my presence got me scared..
I told myself if she could talk this way in my presence then this man is trying.. Today nobody is blaming village people over the divorce that is about to hit them oh! Most problems in marriage are mouth problems...
MY ADVICE TO COUPLES:
1. Learn to control your anger when angry
2. Learn to overlook some things in marriage
3. Learn to forgive each other
4. Learn to respect and adore each other
5. Both of you should make it a decision that your marriage will work
6. Both of you should make it work. Don't leave it on one person. It won't work that way
7. I beg you in God's name; Anything your partner says he or she doesn't like pls stop it forever.
8. Learn to understand each other
9. Never compare your spouse to your EX or anyone.
10. Live according to your means.
11. Be faithful and loyal to each other. Avoid cheating it pains.
12. Be best of friends..
If this blessed you then take it to your timely it might heal a home through you...
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